She Doesn’t Text Me As Much – Is She Into Me Still Or Losing Interest?

She used to text you a lot. You liked it. You may not have said it out loud, but you liked it a lot when you’d get a text from her. That was a good feeling. Made you feel like you wanted more. That feeling – you don’t get it as much anymore because she doesn’t text you as much. You used to know that no matter what, she wouldn’t let more than a day or two go by in between messages and some days – she was texting you all throughout the day.

What gives?
Is she losing interest?
Is she still into you?

A good thing to do before you jump to any conclusion at all is to stop and think for a moment – has anything about her life or her schedule changed? If she was texting you all of the time because she had a lot of free time and now she is really busy, that might be the reason why she doesn’t text you as much.
Sometimes, the explanation is really that simple.

A funny thing happens to us guys when we like a woman and we get used to her doing certain things or acting a certain way. Any change – and we are assuming the worst.   Sometimes it is the worst. But, not all of the time. Sometimes the explanation is simple and what we think is a bad sign, really doesn’t mean much at all.

On the other hand, if her life hasn’t changed much and she still has the same amount of free time that she did before … then you DO have to wonder a bit. You do have to be at least a little bit curious about what might be going on.

If this is the case, then you want to see if her texting you less often coincides with anything else. Like, did she mention that she met a new guy friend? That definitely might be something to worry about. Or, have the texts gotten boring to her? Or are the texts leading to nowhere?

See, sometimes guys get comfortable with texting a woman all of the time, but they never take it beyond there. You have to remember that texting works to build attraction, but at some point, you have to turn those texts into face to face encounters.

Don’t get too worried about it, though. You don’t want to be so fixated on worrying about her not texting you as much that it causes you to become insecure around her or so that it makes you oblivious to the fact that there ARE other women out there.
You really wouldn’t be all that worried about one woman not texting you as much as she used to if there were 2, 3, 4, or more OTHER women that you could hook up with … would you?

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