Nice Guy Finish Last and Bad Guys Get the Girl?

We’re going to talk real life here, not the movies; in the movies it would seem that the bad guy always gets the girl and Mr. Clean Living good guy is kicked to the sidelines. Question is, does this really happen in life? Well strange and it may seem, after checking out the local scene, there were a lot of beautiful babes with some of the badest (or they wanted us to think so) guys. What’s up?
To say the least we live in times that are a bit confusing to us guys, we’re supposed to be in touch with our feelings, while at the same time being a «Thunder God», offering protection from the evils of the world, can we do both?

Sometimes bad guys are simply guys who have decided to NOT walk the straight and narrow and conform to society. Not necessarily a bad thing and often of interest to girls.

It would seem, to all outwards appearances that these bad guys answer to no one except themselves, and lead very interesting lives, often captivating to young girls/babes. The nice guys, the ones who may grow to become the next billionaire, seem too normal and girls may wonder, «What could they possibly have to offer?» Those thoughts may not be conscious thoughts, rather burbling up from the subconscious and guiding their actions.

Bad guys, by their very nature are usually confident people, they know what they want and they’re ready to take it by force if necessary. It really doesn’t matter what they look like (within reason), it’s their inner chi/persona/personality that is coming to the forefront and ruling the day. Bad guys are (to women) kind of like a roller coaster ride, they know it’s going to be fun and scary and that same time. And while they might have to overcome their fears to climb on the ride, they’re willing to forego the warning and «go for the gusto». Now lets looks at this persona in a bit more detail, what exactly so they guys have, and how can we blend it into our own personalities.

Power, confidence, personality and drive, these are at least some of the qualities they exude and these are traits that we (as good guys) can weave into our personalities. It may take time and dedications, but hey, do you want to catch the hot babes or not?
It’s time to get in the driver’s seat (meaning take control of your life) and work on what’s missing, whatever that may be. If you lack confidence, then challenge yourself and overcome your fears, when you do, you’ll naturally have increased confidence. Power sort of equals money, so get your life and career on tract so you can have a little bit of disposable income.

It’s not necessary for you to actually be bad, in fact I kind of enjoy being good, but at the same time I’m going to (or work on) blending some of those necessary traits into my own personality. When you do this, you just might find that the same girls who wouldn’t give you a second look before, might now be whispering… «He’s bad… bad in all the right ways»

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