How To Meet Women and Presenting Yourself

Time limitation is a great technique to use when you’re actively out playing the seduction
game. Its benefits are three-fold – each one powerful and advantageous in its own right.
Before we look at how time limitation gives you the upper hand, let’s first go over what
the technique consists of.

A time limiter is a specially constructed statement that casually and believably
introduces a reason why you probably can’t stop and chat for very long with the girl
you’re attempting to pick-up. On the surface, the idea of limiting how long you spend
with the girl seems like a crazy concept, after all, surely the best way of forming a
connection and establishing sexual chemistry with a girl is by talking to her for as long
as you can, to give yourself the largest possible chance of making something happen.
In real-life, though, this isn’t the case; you’re actually much better off using time limitation.
You’ll quickly see why this is the case when you know the benefits time limiters offer.
Benefit #1: When a guy randomly approaches a girl, especially if she hasn’t be
wide/narrow-casting, she’ll often automatically realise in her subconscious the underlying
reason for his interest (especially if she’s hot/has high social worth).
When a girl realises a guy is after only one thing it’s like the gates of persuasion will be spontaneously shut –
or least left barely ajar. To put it simply, your job is made much harder.
After all, the girl wants to maintain control and keep her social worth. Submitting to your advances would
make her look easy (if she’s in public) and feel like easy pickings (whether there are
people around or not). By introducing a time limiter you give the impression that you
aren’t initially overly interested in her and that you have other things to be doing and
getting on with.
Any feeling of manipulation or exploitation is instantly eradicated in the
mind of the female.
Benefit #2: The second advantage offered by time limiters is that they allow you to
exhibit your own social value and dominance. The benefit of this is clear when you break
down the following opposing possibilities:
A: A guy walks up to a girl and starts up a conversation. He seems to have all the time
in the world, nowhere he needs to go and nobody he needs to see. This girl, a stranger
he’s only just met, seems to be his number one priority.
B: A guy casually begins a conversation with a girl but mentions a valid reason he can’t
talk to her for long. It’s clear this guy’s day is planned – there are people he needs to
see and things he needs to get done.
Even if both guys talk about the same things in the same way, the fact that the second
guy introduced a time limiter at the start of the conversation puts him on top. He has
the first benefit (avoiding triggering a negative reaction in the girl’s mind because of
what she thinks he might be up to), the second benefit (he’s exhibited his own social
value and dominance and, of course, the final benefits that follows.
Benefit #3: This advantage is short but sweet and makes perfect sense when you think
about it. By introducing a time limiter at the start of the conversation, as well as reaping
the benefits above, you allow yourself an easy Plan B if things don’t go as well as you’d
hoped.

Usually when a chat dies or fizzles out, you have to mumble a quick reason you
need to get going and leave. But even if it’s a good one it’s pretty likely she’ll realise the
real reason you’re heading off. With a time limiter in place, your exit – if you do end up
taking it – is already set in place ready to be used, all it takes is a quick and easy
reference to whatever it is you used a time limiter at the start of the conversation.

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